I must share the standard disclaimer that I am not a doctor and cannot give out medical advice. Crystals for healing should be used as a compliment to other therapies and not as a replacement for regular medical care.
The best crystal I have found to heal family relationships is Rose Quartz. The is an unconditional love stone. It assist in healing and restoring relationship, especially family relationships. It helps to restore trust, allows you to accept the family member as they are, and not expect more then they are willing to give. Another is Citrine which works on an emotional level to boost self esteem and confidence. It is also a good stone to assist in removing destructive behavior. It replaces depression, gloom and negative emotions with joy and a lightness of spirit. In difficult situations, Fuchsite allows you to combine the unconditional love of Rose Quartz with the necessary stance of tough love, allowing the family member to learn consequences of their action. It teaches them they must stand or fall according to their actions.
Master Crystal Healer
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