I always wondered why I don't allow myself to get close to people I have a wall that does not let people want to get close to me? People drain me if I around them for to long and I don't know why? My son is 16 years old and I want to have protection for him. All I want is to have peace and harmony with people. I'm a good kind person with a good heart and people just don't like me. I love my job and by the time I get off work I have no more energy left to do anything after work. I encounter with people all day long and I feel so drained by the time I get off work. Also my hushand has been yelling and calling my son and I names (not all the time only when he gets angry) for a long time. Now that I set some boundries and asked him to stop I find myself not in love with him. What would you recommand?
I am sorry to hear about your current challenges. Before I go into specific crystal recommendations that address your concerns, you might want to explore additional methods for healing and protection that complement your use of crystals, such as positive affirmations. The use of affirmations has been a transformative tool in the lives of many. I encourage you to articulate what it is you desire and program Clear Quartzwith your affirmations. Here is a great article on using crystals with affirmations:
Amethystand Black Tourmaline are great crystals for protection for both you and your son. Black Obsidian is also protective and could help mitigate your feelings of being “drained” from your interactions with others. Carnelian can help you re-charge your energy, and Rose Quartz can help to soothe your heart and emotional responses to your relationships with yourself, others, and your husband.
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I must share the standard disclaimer that I am not a doctor and cannot give out medical advice. Crystals for healing should be used as a complement to other therapies and not as a replacement for regular medical care. The information offered here is based on a combination of my own personal experiences and that of others on using crystals for healing. My hope is that you will let your own intuition guide your path in working with crystals as well.