What can I use to get a negative person out of my life?
Hi K:
Thank you for your question about how to remove a negative person from your life.
I'm sorry that you are going through this situation - it is always a challenge when you have to deal with difficult people. Unfortunately we cannot change how other people act - the only thing that we can change is how we let them effect us. I would suggest that you wear either
Black Obsidian (my favorite) or
Black Tourmaline. They are excellent at deflecting negative energy. Keep an
Amber around when you need to deal with this person - for instance if it is at work you can keep one on your desk. It is extremely effective at clearing negative energy from spaces. Finally - and I know this is going to seem a little odd - try using a
Rose Quartz or
Pink Calcite. It's always been my secret weapon against miserable people - I like to call it "the power of pink". It helps to surround the situation with loving and happy energy that will remind you to remain positive no matter what. You may find that the happier and more positive you are, the less power this person - or anyone for that matter - will have over you.
Hang in there and keep smiling. Things always get better and I hope that it happens for you very soon. Some people just thrive on making others miserable and once they realize that is no longer possible they just move on.
Thank you again for supporting Healing Crystals.Com and please let us know if we can offer any further advice or support. Wishing you lots of love and light!
Crystals Blessings!
Tara Mideaker
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