I've heard that you shouldn't place different stones in the same bag with each other. Something about the effects not being as strong or one counteracting the other. Is that true or is there a way to charge them to live in harmony with each other?
Also, I love all stones but I'm especially attracted to fluorite. Is it common?
I think this is really a personal preference. For me, placing a variety of stones in the same bag does not, in any way, change the effectiveness. The energy that the stones carry are blended which enhance the overall energy.
I have heard of not putting grounding stones with higher vibration stones, but to be honest, I do not see the harm here either. The energy of the stones, and the person carrying them is balanced out, not counteracted.
The only reason I can think of for NOT placing a variety of stones in the same bag is if some are softer stones and may get dinged/damaged.
Here are a couple of articles in the Healing Crystals archive that share two other unique perspectives in combining or placing stones together.
As for your attraction - this is a very individualized and personal thing. I think that since there are so many types/colors of fluorites, that many folks are indeed attracted to them. However, your attraction to them is intuitive. It is your energy vibration connecting with their energy vibration. Something in that vibration is what you need at this time.
in general is a protective and stabilizing stone. It can be used for grounding and harmonizing spiritual energy. Fluorite (depending on color) helps to enhance intuition, connects to universal consciousness and Spirit. Fluorite is a stone of organization, enhancing mental clarity and information processing. When all around you appears to be in chaos, Fluorite will keep you balanced and focused. Fluorite also helps to absorb negative energies from the environment.
If this resonates with you or you are experiencing some of these issues at this time, then that could be one reason why you are so drawn to fluorite. You may find that down the road, when you experience different issues and life lessons, that you may be drawn to something else. Again, your intuition guiding you to the best stone for that purpose/experience.
Enjoy your amazing crystal journey :) What fun!
With love and crystal blessings,