Sent: Friday, April 11, 2008 2:23 AM
Subject: Inquiry from HealingCrystals.com - Discount Prices on Healing Crystals, Minerals & Tumbled Stones
Okay, looked in your FAQ's and didn't find anything related. I want to buy some crystals but first I need to know which one's I'll need for my situation. First of all, my husband has a child with an ex whom seems to feel as if because he's the dad she has rights to him. Over the last nine years she has caused stress and negativity in our life. A real sociopath, that feels my husband "owes' her something . I feel I am an obstacle to her and lately I've been feeling really bad physically and mentally. When she is in our life and being ugly (to say the least) we experience a lot of trouble not directly caused by her, ei. job loss, my husband going to jail, financial woes, losing our apartment, ect. When we completly avoid her and the child things are on the up & up. However, the little boys suffers. We need help. I firmly believe in crystals, herbal remedies, ect. We are also dealing with her in child supoort court, harrassment, manipulation and verbal/physical threats. She has told me that I have something that belongs to her. Pleassssse help! Thank you for anything.
Greetings and thank you for visiting our website. I am sorry to hear that you and your family are suffering from such a powerful negative force. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to change this person's actions regarding your family. The only thing you can work on is yourself and your home, and hopefully, your husband and his son will follow suit. The more people working toward the goal of peace, the more energy is raised for that purpose, and the more likely peace will occur for your family.
The first thing I would consider doing is clearing the energy in your living environment. You could do this with sage, preferably during the waning moon (when it is diminishing), to banish the negative energies from your home. What you do is light a sage smudgestick, which you could find at any metaphysical store, and walk through he house while either singing or chanting some words about negative energies living the area. Be sure to leave a couple of windows open for those energies to escape through.
Once the clearing is done, and when the moon is now waxing (growing) you could set some Clear Quartz Clusters, programmed for protection, in strategic locations around the house, known as a protective grid. Clear Quartz is a powerful crystal that can amplify intentions and raise energy to the highest levels. Clear Quartz can act as an energetic cleanser and is known as the "master healer" of the mineral kingdom. One Clear Quartz Cluster could be placed near the front door, and maybe one near the back. Some people place crystals at the corners of the house. Go with your intuition on what feels best to you regarding placement. They don't all have to be clusters, but having at least one or two would help to strengthen the connection between these "barrier" crystals. If you are interested, we have a great variety of Clear Quartz items on this page:
Another crystal to consider is Amethyst, for its highly spiritual vibration and its strong protective energies. Amethyst would help in blocking negative energies from your environment. Amethyst is not only protective, but it also carries a powerful spiritual vibration. Amethyst could be used in singular or cluster form, making it good for gridding the home like Quartz. In gridding your home, you could alternate Clear Quartz with Amethyst Clusters, for the largest output of protective energies. Amethyst could also be helpful to individual family members as a pendant or single crystal in the pocket or purse. You can see our selection of Amethyst Crystals on this page:
A great stone for dealing with excessive negative energies is the metaphysically popular Black Tourmaline. Black Tourmaline can balance the energies of the Clear Quartz and Amethyst, and ground any existing negative energies to be transmuted and/or redistributed by the Earth. Black Tourmaline cleanses and transform the denser vibrations into lighter ones, and is known as another protective stone to be added to your arsenal. Black Tourmaline may best serve you as a single stone to be carried, or even slept with, to let its energies have a continuous influence in your aura. We have a nice offering of Black Tourmaline here:
Another option that seems to fit your specific issue is Smokey Quartz. Smokey Quartz is a grounding crystal like Black Tourmaline, yet it offers some amplification and programming abilities as well, like Clear Quartz. Smokey Quartz can be a great support crystal for you all as it can help to relieve stress and fear, and promote positive thought. Smokey Quartz is also known to facilitate clear communication and logic. Keeping one of these in your living room can help to not only improve communication, but also draw away negative energies, which would be helpful if she comes into your house from time to time. We have some Smokey Quartz on this page:
Finally, Selenite is another protective crystal that I thought of while reading your email. Selenite is believed to evoke protection from the angelic realm. Selenite is often used during healing sessions for comfort and is another great crystal for use in grids. Selenite carries a peaceful vibration and can help to create an environment free of unhealthy negative vibrations. I have a Selenite Heart that seems to help me when I am under siege from a negative vibrational influence, and I keep a Selenite wand in my daughter's room and in the living room. We offer some Selenite Tumbled Stones that might be beneficial as a pocket crystal. We carry a few Selenite items here:
One more thing to consider is a pouch in which to carry a special crystal or a few tumbled stones. This might be good for the little boy who is being effected by these negative vibrations the most. We have pouches that have neck strings on them so you can wear stones on you that don't happen to be pendants. I use one of these when I don't have any pockets, but I feel I need to carry a crystal on my person. We carry those pouches on this page:
Since some of the crystals I mentioned are programmable, and all would need clearing, please see our articles on those subjects, and many more, here:
One of the articles on that page is entitled, "Stones for Protection" which you can read on this page:
I hope this information helps you and your family. I mentioned the phase of the moon because I have found that synching with the moon has helped me in my own work with crystals, and it may help you as well. If you any further questions, don't hesitate to send in another email.
Peace and Blessings,