I have a relative who has NPD and suffers from a lot of guilt and denial about past issues which causes them to act in a toxic manner. It has driven people out of their lives whom they miss. They can't help themselves to get better. I would like to gift her something wearable and pretty to help. What do you suggest for someone with narcissistic personality disorder?
Thank you for contacting Healing Crystals with your question about crystals for someone with NPD. Before I go any further, I must share the standard disclaimer: I am not a medical professional and can neither diagnose illness nor prescribe medical treatments. Crystals should not be used as a replacement for medical care, but rather used as a complimentary therapy along with the treatment prescribed by your licensed medical professional.
This is a complex energetic issue to address, and so there is not any single crystal that I can find that would address the issues of NPD. If the person wants to help herself, but has not been able to thus far, the crystals will support the energy of self-healing. If she does not want to help herself and this is a "covert crystal healing operation," I must caution you that results will be minimal, as the crystals will need to be cleansed and re-energized regularly and an openness to change is really necessary for results.
Having said that, NPD can be related to an imbalance in the Root Chakra, and Red Jasper is an excellent crystal for supporting the healthy function of this Chakra. Rose Quartz brings important Unconditional Love energy, which helps open the Heart Chakra, allowing the person to start to function from a place of love, rather than control/dominance. Finally, Amethyst is a helpful crystal for opening the Crown Chakra and allowing for Spiritual energy and wisdom to enter.
I hope this information has been helpful to you. And of course, if you have any further questions regarding crystals or crystal healing, please feel free to contact us again.
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