Thank you for your question. I'm sorry that you are going through this situation. I can really relate because I've been where you are and have had to deal with some very difficult, abusive people. Unfortunately we cannot change how other people act - the only thing that we can change is how we let them effect us. I would suggest that you wear either Black Obsidian (my favorite) or Black Tourmaline. Keep an Amber at your desk or around your work area - it is extremely effective at clearing negative energy from spaces. Finally - and I know this is going to seem a little odd - try using a Rose Quartz or Pink Calcite. Again on your desk or workplace - the closer you can get it to this person that is upsetting you the better. It's always been my secret weapon against miserable people - I like to call it "the power of pink". It helps to surround the situation with loving and happy energy that will remind you to remain positive no matter what. You may find that the happier and more positive you are, the less power your co-worker - or anyone for that matter - will have over you.
Hang in there! Things always get better and I hope that it happens for you very soon.
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