What crystals do you suggest to help me deal with a 19 year old who is disrespectful and obnoxious, but is not mine? I can't stand to be in the same room as my boyfriend's son because of the way the kid treats him and the fact he does nothing about it. Any help would be great as I'm at a loss. Thank you!
Thank you for your question about which crystals can help you with your relationship with your boyfriend's son. Here are a few ideas:
Lapis Lazuli can help you all have more productive communications
Tigers Eye will enable your boyfriend to work with his son rather than allowing him to manipulate every situation...it can also help to alleviate any guilt that might be involved.
Rhodoniteis a wonderful crystal for families since it brings patience and balance into every situation.
You probably already know that you cannot do anything about changing your boyfriend or his son since you cannot control how others act or behave. What you can control is how you deal with the situation and protect yourself from any of negative influences. I think Black Tourmaline would be very helpful for you to carry when you are around them. I would also use Hematitein their home (or whatever space that you all share) to keep the energy positive
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