I am trying to bring my ex boyfriend back. We both say we love each other and we have been physical he said that is all he wants but he is very protective of me gets jealous etc. I want a commitment from him and to give our relationship another chance. What can I do?
Thank you for reaching out to us with your question. Your situation is tough because your ex is not being fair to you or you are not hearing him--either way, crystals are best used for everyone's highest good, and in situations such as yours, it is for the highest good that both parties have the free will do work things out for themselves as well as together. Trying to bend the outcome to your desire can create a future energy issue between you (some people might use the word "karma" here.)
So the best I can offer you is crystals to help heal your heart from the negative parts of this relationship and to prepare it for true love--whether that comes from your ex, or someone else. Rose Quartz, Rhodochrosite, Kunzite and Rhodonite are all good choices for this work.
Please also keep in mind, someone who says they love you, is physical with you, but won't actually be with you outside that, yet doesn't want you to be with someone else, is not displaying a healthy love for you. He is setting up a potentially long pattern of hurt between you if this cycle continues. If you might describe yourself as feeling addicted to him, Amethyst might help release this. Black Obsidian is also helpful for breaking harmful patterns.