I am being overworked in my restaurant job! My boss does not care to properly communicate when I try to express feelings . She shuts me off. What stones can I use to deal with this stressful environment?
I am so sorry about the difficult time that you are going through in your job.
You can never change how someone else acts or the negative energy that they bring. What you can change is how you allow them and their energy to effect you. First you need to neutralize the effect that the negative energy you are surround by has on you. You cannot change people no matter how hard that you try so I would suggest crystals that can neutralize the energy and protect you from harmful attacks.Black Tourmaline is the most power protection when it comes to crystals.
Whenever you need to deal with anyone's negative energy you should carry or wear one. Hold it over your heart and charge it with the intention that it will deflect any negative energy that is sent towards you no matter what form that it will take. Ask that that the energy be transformed with light and love and sent back to where it came from. You don't want to become part of the negativity...you want to be part of the positive energy that is filled with light and love. It is much stronger no matter how that may feel.
Besides the Black Tourmaline carry a Rose Quartz and charge that with the intention that it surround you with light and love that no bad intentions or negative energy can penetrate. I like to imagine a pink bubble and see in my mind the negative energy (it is usually graying blobs in my head) bouncing off of it, turning pink and then racing back to its source.
The second thing that you want to do is strengthen yourself. It sounds as if your situation is hurting you emotionally and affecting your self esteem. Green Tourmaline is a powerful tool to be assertive without being abrasive and/or disrespectful. You want your boss to pay attention to you - not feel threatened or as if your opinion doesn't matter. It is also important that you recognize that this job may not be right for you and Green Tourmaline can give you the motivation and determination to find a better situation for yourself if that is necessary.Lapis Lazuli and/or Turquoise will strengthen your confidence & self esteem.
Thank you for reaching out to us and for your support of Healing Crystals.com. I hope that I have been able to help and that you will not hesitate to contact me with any other questions.Be strong and well!
Wishing you lots of Love and Light!
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