Hi. I am male and have Venus in Aries retrograde (12th house). Always had love problems and trouble finding the right person. Is there a crystal that can help?
Thank you for your question about which crystals might help you to have a more positive experience when it comes to love and relationships.
You mentioned that you had Venus retrograde in Aries in your 12th house on your birth chart. The 12th House is about secrets and self sabotage. It points to ways that we can be our own worst enemy. Venus is Aries is an interesting mix of sensitivity and aggression. You probably fall in love and want to commit very quickly and then become easily hurt when others are not as responsive. A retrograde phase is going to help you find a way to make changes. Retrogrades are meant to give us a hard shake so that we can change our attitudes or behavior - or both - whatever it takes to make things better.
I would suggest that you make letting go of the past your first step. It will be the hardest so you want to get it over with. Apache Tearswill help you to forgive (essential for letting go!) yourself and others and also allow you to consider the past objectively. Bloodstoneand/or Black Jasperwill give you perspective once your thoughts are free of past pain. Aries is a very impulsive sign and is not always given to thinking things through. Have you ever thought about what you really want in a relationship or have your just reacted to the moment? You need to ground your impulses and gain some focus. Finally, Pink Aventurineis going to open your heart and let you enjoy the fun and romance while calming your natural instincts to make it all happen now, now, now! It will provide the temperance that you need to really make a significant and lasting connection.
I hope that my suggestions help and I would love to hear back from you and find out which crystals that you used and if you got some positive results. We really appreciate your support of Healing Crystals.com.
Wishing you lots of love and light - and never give up on Love!
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