I have a son who is my only child. He is demanding, rude and difficult. He is 32 years old, lives with me and my husband, who has sons that have all moved out and living with their mates. What can I do to get along with this man who is prone to outburst and bullying? He successfully makes me feel guilty if I say no to him on anything! I am trying to have a relationship with him but sometimes I just want him to move out or run away from home myself. I would like something for my son, to help motivate him to independence and a peaceful existence. I also need something for myself, to live peacefully regardless of what others do or don't do. Your time is appreciated and I continue to love your work, knowledge and insight into the evolution that we are all experiencing right now!
I am sorry to hear you have been having problems with your son. For your feelings of guilt, I recommend using Chrysocolla and Rose Quartz. Sugilite, Rhodonite and Moonstone would be helpful to promote harmony and healing within. When you are feeling the negative effects of your son’s poor behavior, Black Tourmaline would be an excellent crystal to wear for protection. While your son obviously needs to move out of your house and on with his own life, he seems to have some personal issues he is dealing with. Bullying and outburst are likely the result of anger he has inside him. Try Amethyst and Snowflake Obsidian to help transmute this. I also recommend Prehnite, Cavansite, Moonstone and Pink Banded Agate for him to improve his attitude and help him to move on. It would be best for both of you to wear the crystals or carry them in a pocket. You can also try placing crystals around your home to promote harmony and love for all those at home. Try using Rose Quartz and Amazonite. When dealing with negative emotions, be sure to clear the energy of your crystals often so they don’t collect the energy. Here is an article with more information on this. I hope you find this information beneficial to your situation.
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Disclaimer: I must share the standard disclaimer that I am not a doctor and cannot give out medical advice. Crystals for healing should be used as a compliment to other therapies and not as a replacement for regular medical care.