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I'm coming to a fork in the road of my life; I am engaged to someone who is turning out to be who I did not think they were (if you follow that??!). Also, there is someone for whom my feelings are growing, and his for me in return. According to a good friend of mine, my fiancé has some extremely negative energy - which I am beginning to experience.
Are there any crystals that can protect me from my fiancé's negative energy, while also dispelling his feelings for me, and what is the best way to use it/them? I would also like to know if the crystal will have any effect on myself and my beau?
Thank you in advance
Relationships are never easy, are they? They take a lot of work and effort. Some may last a lifetime, others for a short period of time. Sometimes they are presented to us to learn a specific lesson. One thing we can always count on-they always teach us about ourselves.
I applaud you for understanding this experience is a life changing "fork in the road." The decision you make and the boundaries you set in this instance will definitely help you to grow as both a human and spiritual being. I believe the first step here is to make a decision on what road you want to take. Rutilated quartz helps promote mental clarity, to draw off negative energy, to cleanse the aura, and to heal the etheric body. You may want to work with Rutilated Quartz to enhance self-reliance and help with your decision-making process.
Once a decision has been made, it will be necessary to communicate your feelings to the parties involved while remaining true to yourself and those you love. Blue Lace Agate will help to gently verbalize how you are feeling and express what you want for yourself. It helps to enhance verbal communication and expression, helping one to be more discerning in their word choices. Put a piece of tumbled Blue Lace Agate in your pocket to help clear away any jitters and promote clarity. It is also a very supportive stone, promoting the acceptance of one's emotions.
There are a few articles in the Healing Crystals archives that can help suggest crystals to dispel negative energies. I think they will be a great help.
While I would like to be able to recommend a crystal that will help dispel your current fiance's feelings for you, but I am afraid there is not one. I realize that it may not be a pleasant experience however, and can recommend some crystals to ease the emotional issues that may come up as you express your truth. For instance, a combination of Rose Quartz and Green Aventurine can keep you in a space/energy of love and compassion. Ametrine can help to minimize anger and hurt. When it comes to matters of the heart, throwing hurtful words at each other, blaming each other, etc will not help the situation and will only increase the negative energies.
To dissipate any negative energies currently in your space, you can place Black Tourmaline in the corners of each room. Black Tourmaline protects against negativity by removing the negative energy and transmuting it into universal love. It can also help those involved to see how they are bringing the negative energy into the relationship. Black Tourmaline is a great learning tool!
Other crystals that can assist in removing negativity from space or person would include:
Amethyst-removes negative thoughts
Aventurine- reduces negative thoughts and emotions
Chlorite in Quartz-absorbs
Jasper, Red, Brecciated
Kunzite, Pink- dispels negativity
Rose Quartz-removes negativity
Ruby-removes negative thoughts
Each person's experience is different. Safety may or may not be a concern. Reactions and actions may need to be worked through. I certainly hope these crystal suggestions will help you find the peace and love that you seek for yourself and the others involved.
Written by Kristi Huggins
Author and Project Manager for Healing Crystals
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