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Subject: Crystal Recommendations for Friends in Hard Times
Date: 07/17/10
From: MK
To: Healing Crystals

Hi again. I am overwhelmed in making selections for myself since I have so, so many physical and emotional issues going on — but I'd like to get some things for friends who I think may benefit and have more clearly defined challenges to address. I am writing for some direction in making specific selections after reading a number of the educational resources here and am feeling overwhelmed. Any feedback would be appreciated!

Friend #1
1) He just broke up with his live-in girlfriend, so heartache there and he seems to be blaming himself because he was too wrapped up in his work. I guess he needs to release some stuff and I'd like to see him be able to attract someone new into his life.
2) He has lots of politics and negativity going on at work that is draining and grating upon him, so he needs some protection and to dispel it.
3) He just made a transition in his life and has starting learning reiki and started massage school. He is a high school media and drama teacher by profession, and has shifted totally his frame of reference in life.
4) He says he feels like he just woke up.

Friend #2
1) He just broke up with his live-in girlfriend too.
2) His little brother just passed away.
3) Heavy old family baggage to release, divorced parents, recreational addictions with him and his brother, years of litigation to do with the family business, torn between mom in NYC and dad/business in LA.
4) Health issues - multiple chemical sensitivity syndrome, old mercury poisoning, parasite/candida stuff, anxiety/depression, etc.
5) Insomnia

The MCS is a really big thing and affects every aspect of everything else.

Many thanks.

 

 

 

 

Good Morning,

This is far too much to research/answer in one consultation, so if you do not mind, I will work with one friend at a time.
I must share the standard disclaimer that I am not a doctor and cannot give out medical advice. Crystals for healing should be used as a compliment to other therapies and not as a replacement for regular medical care. With that said, let's take a look at your friend's issues.


1) He just broke up with his live-in girlfriend, so heartache there and he seems to be blaming himself because he was too wrapped up in his work. I guess he needs to release some stuff and I'd like to see him be able to attract someone new into his life.

This is a very important lesson AND an amazing growth opportunity for your friend. He realizes that he may have been spending more time with his work and not enough time in an important relationship. This is awesome! Many people would pass the blame over to the other person in the relationship and not take any responsibility themselves. Your friend is taking responsibility for his part in the separation.

I believe that using Rose Quartz and Green Aventurine would go very far in helping him to find and achieve balance in his relationships as well as to love and forgive himself. It will also help him to release the pain, anger and self-loathing he may be feeling right now. This combination will help your friend to regain his self-esteem and confidence. It will also remind him that he has learned a great lesson that he can take with him into his next relationship.

Another crystal that would be very helpful here is Kunzite. Pink Kunzite produces loving thoughts and communication, radiates peace, and connects to universal love. It dispels negativity. Kunzite helps to removes obstacles from ones path, aids in self expression, removes emotional debris and allows free expression of feeling.


2) He has lots of politics and negativity going on at work that is draining and grating upon him, so he needs some protection and to dispel it.

I would recommend some Black Tourmaline here for starters. Black Tourmaline not only repels negativity, but sends it back to the ones that sent it in the first place.

Obsidian is a wonderful protection stone that also provides a shield against negativity. It will also transform negative vibrations within the environment. Carrying or wearing Obsidian assists in dispersing those unloving thoughts which arise from within the self or are directed toward ones physical form.

For those who feel a lot of negativity around them or an area, Chevron Amethyst is a wonderful expeller of such energies.

For other crystals/stones that may help to remove negativity, here is a summary of articles in the Healing Crystals archives that may assist:
http://www.healingcrystals.com/Crystals_to_Remove_Negative_Energy_-_Summary_Page_Articles_1588.html


3) He just made a transition in his life and has starting learning reiki and started massage school. He is a high school media and drama teacher by profession, and has shifted totally his frame of reference in life.

He says he feels like he "just woke up". I think in many aspects he has :)

A combination of Citrine and Amethyst can help to support and enhance spiritual growth.

Geodes can be utilized to aid in our spiritual growth process.

Iolite can help to enhance our own personal power, inner strength and self-confidence. Iolite helps to embrace change, especially when that change is pointing towards personal spiritual growth.

I think these suggestions will all be very helpful. Your friend is very lucky to have you as a friend who loves and supports him.

We wish him well as he begins his spiritual journey of self discovery.

With love and crystal blessings,

Kristi

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Greetings,

This is far too much to research/answer in one consultation, so if you do not mind, I will work with one friend at a time.

I must share the standard disclaimer that I am not a doctor and cannot give out medical advice. Crystals for healing should be used as a compliment to other therapies and not as a replacement for regular medical care. With that said, let's take a look at your friends issues.

Friend #2

1) He just broke up with his live-in girlfriend too.

I will always recommend the Rose Quartz/Green Aventurine combination. Again, this will help your friend to find and achieve balance in his relationships as well as to love and forgive himself. It will also help to release the pain and anger that often comes with a difficult break up. This combination will help your friend to regain his self-esteem and confidence. It will also remind him that he has learned a great lesson that he can take with him into his next relationship.

Peridot can be used to cleanse and stimulate the Heart and Solar Plexus Chakras, bringing openness and acceptance in the intellectual pursuit of matters of love and relationships.Peridot can help one to learn how to live from the Heart, remaining faithful to one's own inner truth. Peridot can help with issues of self-worth, bringing relief to unhealthy emotions such as anger, resentment, and jealousy. It's work with the Heart Chakra can improve relationships by assisting with emotional healing.

Watermelon Tourmaline can help to heal from a broken relationship and go forward with that knowledge to attain balance and harmony in future relationships.


2) His little brother just passed away.

Unakite helps with issues of grief. Its soothing energies allow for true understanding and comprehension.

Blue Jade is a supportive stone as we work our way through the stages of grief, loss, or change.

Onyx can be quite valuable in difficult or confusing times. It can be used to banish grief and encourages happiness and good fortune.

3) Heavy old family baggage to release, divorced parents, recreational addictions with him and his brother, years of litigation to do with the family business, torn between mom in NYC and dad/business in LA.

Agatized Coral can be used to support trauma therapy and assists in working through emotional issues from dysfunctional families or relationships.

Axinite exhibits an energy conducive to stabilizing relationships.

Iolite balances the male/female aspects of ones character, bringing harmony (within the self) and eliminating dissonance and disruption in relationships.

Opal can strengthen personal affiliations and business relationships.


4) Health issues - multiple chemical sensitivity syndrome, old mercury poisoning, parasite/candida stuff, anxiety/depression, etc.

I am only going to offer a few suggestions here mainly because some of the issues listed could be causing the others that are listed. Labradorite can help to reduce anxiety and stress. It assists in the elimination of addictions and can aide in digestion, regulation and metabolism.

Rutilated Quartz absorbs mercury poisoning and repels negativity (which, when repressed can cause all types of physical issues).

Lepidolite can help to alleviate depression, reduces stress, and helps to shift and restructure old energy patterns, bringing light and new hope to a situation.

5) Insomnia

Again, Lepidolite can be useful here as it reduces stress, relieves despondency and overcomes insomnia.

Lithium is great for depression, bipolar, manic depression, alcoholism, and drug addiction. It also works well for those who suffer from insomnia.

I hope these suggestions are helpful. Again, your friends are very lucky to have you as a friend.

We wish your friend well as he faces his challenges and begins the healing process.

With love and crystal blessings,

Kristi



Posted on July 22, 2010
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