Question: My friend has been hurting ever since a breakup and she feels like everybody is against her and she's her own worst enemy right now. She also gets ill quite often as her immune system isn't strong anymore. Is there a crystal I can get her that would work with her to overcome these?
Answer: Hi K,
Thank you for reaching out to us.
Crystals that may assist healing a broken heart:
Chrysoprase - good for balance, self-acceptance, as well as acceptance of others. Helps with a broken heart as well as judgmental attitudes.
Rhodonite - is a calming stone that is known to be good for yin/yang balance, self-esteem. It also grounds feeling of love in the physical world and helps anxiety as well as mental unrest.
Rose quartz - a gentle stone that can be good for forgiveness, love and relationships with self and others. It helps with anger, stress, tension, fear, guilt, grief, inadequacy (especially self-inadequacy), and emotional wounds.
Crystals to help boost her self-confidence:
Citrine - known to be a good for boosting the self-esteem.
Golden Tiger Eye - a real feel good stone that is good for new beginnings. This one that I always turn to personally when I am feeling a little negative and it's known to help with fear, anxiety and worry.
Judy Hall (The Crystal Bible) recommends the following crystals for the immune system:
Amethyst - known to strengthen the cleansing and eliminating organs as well as the immune system.
Black Tourmaline - known to absorb negative energies and transmute it to more positive energies, grounds energy and increases physical vitality.
Turquoise - known to be a very efficient healer and bring well-being to the body. It enhances the physical and psychic immune systems, alleviates viral infections and heals the whole body.
What I can recommend is to perhaps take a look at the suggestions and see what catches your eye. If it is more than one, you can make her a little mojo/"medicine" bag that she can carry with her or keep around her in the environment. You can include a little positive intention and affirmation along with it or she can add her own.
Previous articles you may find helpful:
Which Crystals Will Help Heal a Broken Heart
Crystals to Boost your Immune System
I hope you find this helpful.
*Disclaimer – Crystals are not a medical treatment and should not be used as a replacement for medical care. Please consult your healthcare specialist for your particular needs.